In adhering to the boundaries set by the Sharia, we can uphold the Quranic command to the believing men and women to be awliya of one another, or protecting friends, while at the same time maintaining the modesty and purity of heart that come from obeying Allah and His Messenger in this regard.
In brief, when interacting with a woman who is not a member of your unmarriageable kin or your wife, you must avoid khalwa, or seclusion; guard your gaze; and obviously, avoid any physical contact.
It is therefore important to consult our parents or guardians, to seek their guidance, and to consider their advice.
A guardian can only intervene if there exists a strong Islamic objection--one that would be acceptable to a qadi (judge).
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Could you provide some detailed guidelines on how brothers should interact with sisters in a way that is completely in line with the shariah?